{Another trip around the sun}

I’ve never been someone who loves celebrating my own birthday. In fact, even writing that sentence makes me cringe a little. There’s just something about being the center of attention that doesn’t sit naturally with me—whether it’s a big party, people singing loudly in a restaurant, or the moment when all eyes are on you. Nope. Not for me.

But over the years, I’ve learned to appreciate the way others love to celebrate—even when it’s me they’re celebrating. I may not throw a big bash or post a birthday countdown, but I’m genuinely thankful for the people in my life who show up, who make me feel loved, and who find joy in making the day special in their own way.

One group that has always gone above and beyond is Nate’s family. His parents are big believers in birthdays being a big deal—not in an overwhelming or flashy way, but in a genuine, thoughtful, celebratory way. They have a gift for making people feel seen and valued, and even though it can make me squirm a little (hello, introvert), I’m truly grateful for their effort and love.

This year’s celebration was just right. We all met up at a restaurant in a nearby town—lowkey, relaxed, and sweet. The kind of gathering where you can actually talk, laugh, and enjoy each other’s company without any pressure or fuss. It was simple and thoughtful—exactly the kind of birthday celebration that fits who I am.

And as if that weren’t sweet enough, I happened to run into one of my best friends at the restaurant, totally by surprise. What are the odds? That unexpected moment turned an already meaningful evening into something even more special. We hugged, we caught up briefly, and I was reminded yet again of how small blessings have a way of showing up right when you need them.

So, while I might never be the one planning my own party or shouting “it’s my birthday!” from the rooftops, I am learning to receive love in the ways it’s given. I’m learning that celebration doesn’t always have to feel like a spotlight—it can feel like a hug, a shared meal, a quiet gesture, or a surprise run-in that reminds you you’re not alone.

To everyone who took the time to make my day special—thank you. You may not know how much it means to someone who’d rather blend into the background, but it truly does.

Here’s to another year around the sun—quietly, gratefully, and surrounded by love.